tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527001750996920656.post6281120571808951820..comments2016-01-28T14:07:29.314-05:00Comments on memories of you: One Yearrobinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17294530296881321116noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4527001750996920656.post-5783799655100724902011-12-12T10:15:06.068-05:002011-12-12T10:15:06.068-05:00Dear Robin
In your writings about Gee, I see such ...Dear Robin<br />In your writings about Gee, I see such a strong loving person that he was. I have one question for you: What would Gee say about your feelings of guilt? I am sure that he holds nothing against you for doing what you had to do. And that this is not how he would want you to live the rest of your life. <br />Now I have a couple of suggestions that have helped grieving family of mine:<br />1. Talk to your minister.<br />2. Seek out grief counseling. Some funeral homes can help you find a class.<br />3. Get medical help for your depression problem. Talk to your Dr. He can help you.<br /><br />I wish you nothing but the best. In the short time I have been reading your blog, I have been wanting to help you manage your grief. And their is nothing wrong with grieving a loved one. Every one does. My Step mother lost my Dad a few years ago and even though they were only married for 15 years she grieves him daily. If it wasn't for her sisters, friends and church activities keeping her busy she would just sit and cry too. I talk to her often, mostly at night after she is done with whatever she was doing, when she misses dad the most. For the last three years of his life she did everything for him, feeding, bathing, changing his diapers, helping him stand, sit and get into bed. And my dad was a lot like Gee, a strong man who didn't want to end up like he did. For the last 6 months of his life she had to put him in a nursing home. Something she promised him wouldn't happen. But she had no choice, she fell and broke her hip and us kids couldn't fill the gap in his care. So she carries a lot of guilt around too. So when I talk to her when she is feeling guilty and I ask her: What Would Dad Say? She KNOWS the answer, but sometimes she need to be reminded. He would say "I LOVE you and their is nothing to forgive."GreyWolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09509772394021322139noreply@blogger.com